Great Networking and Education at Fairway Terrace by Putters
LVWN at Fairway Terrace Video from tonights meeting! Enjoy!
What a great group of wedding professionals! The evening started with great food provided by Soiree’s Catering and the venue Fairway Terrace @ Putters was perfect for this fun and informative event. Tonights seminar presented by Monica Morgan of VegasVows was on working with Constant Contact. Andy Ebon was there to add his advice too. Harry O provided the background music and everyone was treated to a Candy Station provided by Sweet Sensations. Thanks to everyone of our wedding professionals that provided their time and products for this event.
We look forward to seeing everyone again on July 1 at Canyon Gate where the topic for the evening will be preparing for bridal shows!
To Blog, Or Not To Blog?
… is probably the wrong question.I must admit I been infused with a heavy dose of Seth Godin logic. It comes with reading his books and blog, and understanding his perspective. His angle is consistent. Ask different question. Suggest to his readers that they ask different questions.
So when one of my business friends posted the title, “To Blog, Or Not To Blog” on a private message board, I could help but suggest, “Perhaps that’s the wrong question?”
Just because blogging is almost free, in terms of hard dollars, doesn’t mean it’s easy. If you are not a natural writer, you may spend more time per post or have challenges with subject matter. At a lecture last week, I invoked the quotation: “Anything worth doing well, is worth doing badly at first.” (Ben Franklin, I think).
FACT: A well-crafted, well-maintained WordPress blog, that lives on your website server is perhaps the greatest search engine optimization tool, around, today.
The benefits of engaging customers, prospects, industry peers and media are tangible and incalculable. Actually, not entirely incalculable.
Another FACT: The longer you wait to blog, the more run-up time you give to your competitors.
One of the most important facts of life is: Don’t kid yourself. As my friend likes to say: “It’s a no-brainer.”
The answer to the question: “To blog, or not to blog?” (as part of my wedding marketing plan) is, indeed, a no-brainer. There are other good question to ask, but from where I sit, this isn’t one of them.
Andy Ebon
The Wedding Marketing Authority
Wedding Professionals Unite Against These Suggestions!
This link was sent to me the other day from one of my fellow bridal show producers. This article titled “The Big Wedding Money Wasters” will make your blood boil!
Now I know you, as true wedding professionals, can come up with better advice for todays brides planning on a budget than these concepts which could lead to a very bad wedding day experience!
So, no matter what your professional category, send in your suggestions for how a bride can cut costs and lets create our own “money saving” suggestions. You can either comment here or e-mail me at deb@bridalspectacular.com
I hope you will take the time to read the whole article but just to give you an idea here are some bulleted guidelines they are suggesting. THESE ARE VERY BAD TIPS!
- Don’t get Save The Date cards
- Shop for your dress somewhere besides a bridal shop
- Use an i-pod for your music
- Bake your own cup cakes instead of a wedding cake
- Hire a friend or college student for your photographer instead of a pro
- Skip the favors, limo and any other “wow” extras.
Now, to be fair there were a few good tips in the article on ways to save on flowers and the dinner costs, but the other advice was so …….
What say you? Put your advice and comments here!
Debra Hansen, The Bridal Spectacular
Industry Stats from The Knot
Found this great information today! Some of these stats have more than likely declined further in recent months, but you can still glean some great information from them. Enjoy! Debbie Hansen
Submitted by The City Wire staff on Wed, 04/08/2009 – 3:53pm.
The average spent on a wedding in the U.S. during 2008 was $29,334, up 5.2% over the 2007 average.
The Knot Wedding Network surveyed 18,000 couples married in 2008 to gather information on the costs and trends associated with weddings during the year.
The top 10 average costs of a 2008 wedding were:
Venue, $13,667, up 7.4% over 2007
Band, $3,633, down 11.5%
Photographer, $2,655, up 0.2%
Florist/decorations. $1,924, down 2.4%
Wedding planner, $1,907, up 8.6%
Rehearsal dinner, $1,640, n/a
Videographer, $1,591, up 1.2%
Wedding gown, $1,032, down 22%
Reception DJ, $943, up 0.3%
Wedding day transportation, $725, up 6.7%
The top 10 most expensive places to get married, according to the survey, are: Long Island, N.Y.; New York City; Northern New Jersey; Hudson Valley, N.Y.; Chicago; Connecticut; Los Angeles; South Florida; Rhode Island; and Orange County, Calif.
The Knot survey noted that the big question now is how the recession will impact 2009 wedding plans. According to a survey completed in March 2009, a majority of brides (60%) indicated that wedding spending will not change, while 40% have reduced their wedding budgets by approximately 16%.
Other interesting wedding trends and info include:
• The bulk of the average wedding budget is dedicated to the reception venue ($13,667, a 7% increase over 2007); followed by the reception band ($3,633 on average); and photography ($2,655 on average).
• Budgets are bigger and everyone’s contributing: The bride’s parents (44%) and the bride and groom (43%) are paying for the majority of weddings. Grooms’ parents also contributed (12%) in 2008.
• Couples are engaged longer: Couples marrying in 2008 were engaged for an average of 15.7 months, more than 25% longer than those married in 2007. A majority of couples (71%) lived together prior to getting married.
• Photography Is editorial and digital: Almost all (93%) brides chose “documentary” style photographers, and 90% of photographers shot in digital.
• Brides are hot on do-it-yourself: More than half (55%) of brides made their own favors and ceremony programs. Other top DIY categories were escort cards, save-the-dates, invitations, and decorations.
• New York City has the oldest brides and grooms, with average ages of 31 and 33. Respectively, Utah has the youngest, with average ages of 25 (bride) and 27 (groom).
• Iowa and Nebraska couples have the largest weddings, with more than 200 guests.
• Hawaii, Maine, and North Carolina have the most casual weddings. Connecticut, South Florida, Chicago, Detroit, and New York City (and surrounding areas) have the most formal (black tie).


Wedding vendors are often frustrated that brides don’t appreciate the value of their services. Ultimately, aside from ‘customer service,’ there are three major factors that come into play.





